Relationship Advice For Men
Due to all of the modern dating advice that men get, it almost seems like it is ‘wrong’ to fall in love with a woman. You always hear that you need to be the alpha male and be super confident and not give in. Does that mean that you should not be looking for love if you are a guy?
This is something that I have seen a LOT of men get mixed up about, especially since the topics of love and relationships can be so complex and confusing anyways.
Nowadays, it seems like you cannot go to see a movie geared towards men where the characters aren’t dishing out advice to each other and it almost always comes back to the idea that guys should be trying to get as many women as possible and not fall in love.
Next, you turn to the internet and you run into lots of advice sites, where it is all about the super alpha male, running routines and gimmicks to get a one night stand.
They even make it seem as if wanting to fall in love with a woman makes you less of a man.
Is that really the truth?
Not at all. To tell you the truth, love is something that you cannot fight. At some point in time, you are going to get the desire to be with one woman, because she knocks you out, she challenges you, she makes you love life as long as she is part of it.
And that is NOT a bad thing, no matter what the world wide web thinks, Hollywood, or cheesy stand up comedians.
What you DO want to avoid is that desire to fall in love so badly, that you end up falling for the WRONG woman. Guys do this a lot when they just want to be with someone so badly, it’s all they think about.
The connect with a woman and automatically want to settle down with her before they really get to know her.
Of course, sometimes that can be a good thing. Sometimes the next woman who comes along ends up being right for you. However, if you don’t have much of any dating experience at all…
how are you really going to know how she measures up? You won’t. That can end up very badly, you can end up attracting the WRONG woman and not have the confidence to end the relationship.
You end up being that guy that dreads going home to his girlfriend or his wife.
The guy that would rather work 16 hours at the office than to have to deal with his woman. Is that the life that you really want?
So, is it wrong to fall in love with a woman?
Not if you already have some experience and you take the time to get to know her and she really is all that you could want.
Then, by all means, fall for her, flip for her, do whatever you want.
Just don’t fall for the first woman to come along and expect to find happiness for the long term.
How do you know when the time is right and if you are making the right choice?
Pick up dating skills, learn techniques to attract women, and step back and evaluate what really works.
And more than anything else, learn how to read a woman’s body language so that you can read between the lines and see if she is for real or not.